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When was the last time you felt ‘in the FLOW’?

Perhaps it was during a challenging-yet-rewarding project at work, in the middle of a focused exercise class, or while absorbed in a favourite book, song or hobby.

The state of FLOW - a mental mode where focus feels effortless - can be achieved in countless ways. But one often-overlooked path to FLOW is through great conversations. We’ve all experienced magical conversations: the kind where time flies, ideas spark, and you walk away feeling understood, inspired or deeply connected. That’s conversational FLOW: a seamless exchange where anxiety, awkwardness and hesitation melt away, leaving both sides feeling like they’re engaging in a well-choreographed dance.

As a holistic wellbeing hotel in Zermatt, we believe conversations can be as energising and transformative as any physical activity. With that in mind, here’s how to spark that FLOW state in your own conversations…

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10 questions to foster conversational FLOW

The secret to better conversations lies in asking the right questions: open-ended ones that encourage thoughtful responses, curiosity, and a deeper affinity. Here are ten to keep up your sleeve.

Connect over personal experiences:

1. What’s the most important thing that’s happened to you recently?
2. What’s exciting you right now?

Share passions and interests:

3. What book or film have you finished recently that you’d recommend and why
4. What’s the most interesting or unusual thing you’ve learned lately?

Challenge and engage:

5. What bad habit would you most like to break?
6. What good habit or improvement would you like to adopt?

Bring out positivity and pride:

7. What’s the nicest thing someone has said about you lately?
8. What have you done recently that you’re most proud of?

Spark excitement about the future:

9. What are you most looking forward to?
10. What do you want your biggest triumph of this year to be?

How to create conversational FLOW

Great conversations don’t happen by chance. They require intention. Whether you’re connecting with friends in a free yoga class at SCHLOSS Zermatt, taking a post-hike break in some of Zermatt’s best sport and spa facilities, or enjoying a fireside chat after a day of adventure, the following tips can help you foster conversational FLOW…

1. Active listening: pay full attention to the other person. Ask follow-up questions and reflect back what you hear to show understanding.

2. Be present: put away distractions like phones or multi-tasking. Focus fully on the moment and the person in front of you.

3. Show genuine interest: ask questions that come from a place of true curiosity about a person’s thoughts and experiences.

4. Embrace vulnerability: share your own stories and perspectives, even if they feel exposing. It deepens the connection and invites openness.

5. Maintain positivity: keep an open attitude, stay receptive to new ideas, and avoid passing judgment.

Why conversations matter

At our wellness hotel in Zermatt, we emphasise the importance of connection. Not just to the stunning alpine surroundings, but to yourself and others. Great conversations help you build relationships, spark ideas, and nurture a sense of belonging - all of which contribute to a deeper sense of wellbeing.

So, as you explore Zermatt’s winter activities or unwind at our free breakfast, take a moment to connect with someone. Ask a thoughtful question, listen actively, and let the conversation FLOW. It’s one of the simplest yet most meaningful ways to create balance, joy, and connection in life.

FIND YOUR FLOW AT SCHLOSS ZERMATT AND BOOK YOUR STAY NOW

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